I’m Stephanie

Having spent over 20 years as a lawyer in financial services, both in-house and in private practice, I know what it feels like to work in high-pressure, demanding environments.

Through talks, webinars and 1:1 listening sessions, I bridge the personal development and corporate worlds to help professionals find clarity, confidence and meaning in their careers and lives.

I believe that you can work in the corporate world and still live a soulful life. My sessions offer practical ideas on how to do just that – particularly in the age of AI, when the question of what it means to be human (and how to stay that way) has never felt more pressing.

This work is about you, but you may want to know a little more about me before you decide to work with me.  

My Story


I started my legal career over 20 years ago at McCarthy Tétrault, Canada’s national law firm, and went on to be a finance lawyer at Clifford Chance (Amsterdam and London) and Latham & Watkins (London). 

When in private practice, I noticed that many women, including me, were facing particular challenges with traditional law firm culture – and many were leaving. At the same time, most women I knew (including me) wanted a meaningful career. This predated Lean In by Sheryl Sandberg, but law firms were beginning to take “gender diversity” seriously as a business issue. Around that time, people I knew well (and didn’t know so well) kept volunteering that I seemed more like a psychologist than a finance lawyer. So I made a career change: after 7 years, I left private practice and started running events and individual sessions to empower women in law and, at the same time, began to deliver workshops at law firms to address gender imbalance.

Over the years, this work has expanded beyond law firms to the wider corporate world (and has included the occasional speaking engagement in architecture and medicine). The content has also evolved beyond gender to include diversity of thought, the power of the mind, leadership and well-being. My overarching interest is in how we can make the workplace more human.

In 2012, while developing this work, I returned to practising law through Axiom, a firm that places lawyers on in-house engagements and encourages the integration of outside interests. While there, I worked as an in-house lawyer for six financial institutions. These experiences gave me a broad overview of corporate culture and how humans behave within those cultures.

My sixth engagement as an Axiom lawyer turned into a permanent position. I didn’t plan this, but as John Lennon once sang, “life is what happens when you’re busy making other plans.” I worked in-house at that organisation – a leading UK bank – from 2018 to 2026. What may be noteworthy is that I happened to start writing an article about T.S. Eliot being a banker at this very bank, rather synchronistically, just one week before I received the call to work there. Read my T.S. Eliot article.

Synchronicity is something that intrigues me (oh the mystery and the magic!) and it seems to happen to me a lot. To get a handle on this, I’ve attempted to read Synchronicity by Carl Jung on more than one occasion but I always seem to stop reading at around page 5. There is more work to be done to work out the concept, but for now I’ve stopped analysing and allow myself to enjoy the sense of wonder, joy and interconnectedness that each synchronicity brings.

Speaking of interconnectedness, I hope that this work will inspire you, lift your spirits, make you think differently, enable you to understand yourself and others a little better and help you to be more present and embodied to flourish as a human being at work.

If we work together, I won’t tell you what to do (there are no eight easy steps to being human) – but I will offer practical ideas backed by science (and sometimes by my own experience) to help you to tap into your own wisdom so you can see yourself, others and your path ahead more clearly.

If you would like to work with me, please do get in touch.

A Few More Facts

  • I grew up in Vancouver, British Columbia, studied English literature at Duke University in North Carolina and graduated magna cum laude.

  • After Duke, I returned to Canada for law school at the University of Victoria, where I received an entrance scholarship, worked as a research assistant to the Dean of Law and served on the law journal’s editorial board.

  • People sometimes ask why I became a lawyer. After I studied literature, law school seemed like a logical next step since both disciplines require an ability to deal with ambiguity and to understand the complexities of human behaviour.

  • I’ve practised law at 3 law firms and at 6 financial institutions, in 3 different countries: Canada, the Netherlands and England. I’ve been a lawyer for 20+ years, starting as a finance lawyer and then working on non-contentious regulatory and governance matters for nearly a decade.

  • I have spoken to audiences at c. 8 law firms, 4 financial institutions, 5 corporates, 3 industry bodies and 1 global medical conference.

  • I’m a regular speaker for DLA Piper’s WIN (What In-house Lawyers Need) programme, a multi-award-winning series addressing the technical, commercial and personal aspects of working in-house. The WIN network includes over 13,000 registered users in more than 100 countries and over 40 cities, with over 28,000 event attendees.

  • I’m based in England and speak to global audiences in person and virtually.

Kind Words

“A confident + credible facilitator who has a tactful way of raising matters for discussion without preaching or provoking.”

ANNE COLLIER
Former Head of Learning and Development, SJ Berwin

“Stephanie is one of the leading movers + shakers in the efforts to create better balance in law firms.”

ROSEMARY MARTIN
Former Group General Counsel and Company Secretary, Vodafone

“Stephanie is smart, insightful, energetic, passionate and has a rare ability to fuse the corporate + non-corporate world in a seamless manner.”

CLAIRE ALLAN
Partner & Head of Leasehold Enfranchisement, Lawrence Stephens | Winner of Enfranchisement Solicitor of the Year 2012

“Stephanie’s personal experience as an in-house lawyer combined with her knowledge and research make her the ideal speaker for our programme. Her sessions are delivered with empathy, enthusiasm and professionalism, consistently receiving glowing feedback from our audiences.”

RAISA IBRAHIM
Senior Marketing Manager, DLA Piper

Selected Past Speaking Engagements + Features

Get to Know Me

  • I’m fascinated by intuition, how to develop it and integrate it with the analytical mind to make better decisions.

  • I’m a highly sensitive person (HSP) – a term coined by psychologist Dr Elaine Aron that describes a personality trait. In short, it means I’m attuned to subtleties. This can be a blessing and a burden, but it helps me help others most of the time!

  • I’m an ambivert – yes, that’s a real word, describing someone who is both extroverted and introverted.

  • I can’t sing, but after a dance intensive in Salvador, Brazil in 2011, I started performing samba (amateur!) and still find myself at street dance classes on weekends.

  • My friends call me “The Queen of Synchronicity” – see My Story for one example.

Which brings me to you

Here’s how I can support you + how we can work together.